Self Improvement Articles

A Holiday Story

Saturday, November 3rd, 2007

It's that time of year again, and time for all the wonderful stories that accompany the season. Rudolph, Frosty, Mr. Scrooge. The truth is, everyone has a story. And none is more important to you than yours. So if a writer were hired to write your story, what would it say? Would it be a love story? A drama? A comedy or tragedy? More importantly, how is that story affecting you today? Is it serving you well, or is it more like a weight you lug around? You see, stories are nice, but there's something you must remember about them. ... [more]

If this is My Life, How Come I’m Not in Charge Here?

Saturday, November 3rd, 2007

Are you the CEO of your organization or is someone else running the show? How well do you know Your Board of Directors? How many sit at the table? I know it was the term CEO that threw you, but stay with me here a moment longer because you ARE running a company! Just look at the company you keep. Look in a mirror, who do you see? The CEO? Good. Confused? Ok, I will stop with the riddles. The company you run is You, and believe it or not, some of you even come with a complete Board of Directors ... [more]

Beyond New Years Resolutions that Don’t Work

Saturday, November 3rd, 2007

Welcome to this New Year. This is often a time of reflection, a time of closure and a focus on new beginnings. Often it is a time when we resolve to make ourselves better or happier in some way. In this last Blessing for YOU ezine of the old year I want to suggest certain ways that will allow you to be more creative, more present and more at peace in this coming year. The first resolution is that you promise not to divide yourself against yourself. You promise not to judge yourself in any way. You allow yourself to be as ... [more]

Stop! Make No New Year Resolutions!

Saturday, November 3rd, 2007

It's tradition to make New Year resolutions but how many of them do you actually keep? By the time the excitement of the New Year's celebrations have worn off many resolutions have already been discarded like the millions of tossed out Christmas trees. You slip back into your old ways. You get comfortable. Nothing changes. Indeed that is the crux of the matter. You want things to be better, you really do. And you really try to change your old habits and that is the dilemma. While you cannot get new results with old habits you will ... [more]

Causality in the Matrix II: Reloaded

Wednesday, October 31st, 2007

Although I had seen the Matrix: Reloaded when it came out in the theater, I had just recently seen it for the second time on t.v. Ironically there is a tremendously important part of it that I have already been teaching about which I wasn't aware of from the first time I saw it because back then it was beyond me. Let's go straight to the quotes that come from 'Merovingian' when Trinity, Neo and Morpheus are trying to get to the keymaster through Merovingian at a restaurant table. "You see there is only one constant. One universal. It is the only real ... [more]

Is there Something Beyond a Person’s ‘Inner Game’ for True Change?

Wednesday, October 31st, 2007

Want to hear the greatest breakthrough in self-development? In my subjective opinion it's 'alpha relational dynamics'. But you'll find that it's much more than subjectivity, it's a great level of objectivity and representation of the truth. If you have personal issues, anxieties and self-destructive patterns...is it really your inner game and self-beliefs? I'm here to challenge that assumption that 'inner game' is everything. I say that it's not your 'inner game' that's the problem. Instead, it's your relationship to the problem (and this applies to success with women especially). Fix your relationship with any source or stimuli so that your behavior changes and ... [more]