Social Adaptive Behavior & Social Dynamics Part II
October 31st, 2007 | by Naimp | Posted in Society |Continuing..
In most cases people choose to go to places where they already like the entertainment in which case it’s easy to create a synergy with the people but if the performer doesn’t provide enough independent and representational value (they suck), they people will somehow let them know (booing or no more ticket sales).
When the comedian, rockstar, band, or dj is on the stage, they are taking relational authority over that social environment. They are behaving as the stimulus to which other people will respond to.
Whatever kind of programming they are getting across, the default relationship with the people is that of stimulus-response.
What does this have to do with being successful with women and dating?
Most likely, much more than you have EVER realized in the past.
You see, by placing or having one person at the top of the social hierarchy as the stimulus, everyone else is generally below that person in power by default if they play the social game.
Well, many of today’s women are perceived exactly as the stimulus because they have found ways to look like magazine cover models or soft porn clones.
Because of this social leverage, men will continue to fall into the trap of responding to this social power. This means that their relationship with a woman who they don’t even know has already been formed because they have allowed it to be.
They chose the wrong type of relationship with her in which she is the stimulus and he is the response. Because he edifies women in Maxim magazine and develops all of this added value as a ‘response’ to her exploited sexuality, he unknowingly attributes the same behavioral response to regular women who harness this social power as well.
The irony of all of this is that these women who on the inside really DESPERATELY want to find real men, have to live up to the tremendous social pressure and demands it places on them.
Why? Because the social ‘power’ and influence is strong. To millions of people it’s everything. Little do most of these unsuspecting people know, but they are only socio-cultural byproducts who have adapted to their environment - that’s it.
How do I know this (and how do millions of people outside of Western influence know this to be true)? 2 words; cultural differentiation.
In fact, you can look at causal influence in any environment. It stems beyond the person’s biological inheritance and starts influencing them from an early age onward.
You learn your language, beliefs, ideals and get access to certain opportunities, systems and influences as a result of your immediate socio-cultural environment.
Most people just aren’t aware of it though because they’re so used to it. It’s like an invisible veil that has got it’s grip around countless millions of men and women who are just playing the game that is controlled and driven by the Architects at the top of it.
So, practically speaking when it comes to success with the most beautiful and desired women; we know it’s a power game. She is looking for a man at least her equal or greater.
Your way in is through relational equality by simply not giving up your power in relationship to her or any other person on earth. It’s surprisingly simple actually and it’s how powerful people connect and network; heck, it’s the only way they’ll even open up to a further relationship with someone
new anyways.
But in order to be ‘equal’ and ‘as powerful’ as these beautiful, sexy women you desire you have to be TRULY GROUNDED in your relationship to them. And that’s where everything begins; when they can ‘trust you’ to be yourself and powerful around them.
And how does a guy like you or any other guy for that matter actually BE equal in power to the tremendous social leverage of a beautiful woman?
I’m talking about BEING 100% comfortable and congruent in your own skin before, during and after your communication with any beautiful woman on earth.
How do you get there?
Alpha Relational Dynamics…it’s way beyond your ‘inner game’…they’ve been focusing on the ~wrong subject all along.
And in A.R.D. I teach you how to differentiate and understand the truth of your relationship to your 3 root behavioral character traits, a woman’s 3 and your relationship with the causal social matrix of influence itself.
Any and all women that you want and could have in real life, are real people.
They want you to treat them as real and when you can understand that what you’ve given so much added value to is really just a social adaptive behavior on her part to her unique social culture, you’ll relieve countless compounded years of repression off of your own ‘inner game’ and you’ll be a much more powerful man.
Isn’t it time for real change?!
Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power and relational dynamics. He is well-known within the seduction community itself.