When to ask women out! Now or Later?
May 14th, 2007 | by Naimp | Posted in Women | No Comments »Many guys seem to think that the further out you ask a woman out the greater the likelihood of her saying yes.
Of course from a logical point of view this makes sense, seeing as if she is busy odds are today will be the busiest, with next week and beyond being the least busy.
Yet, the reality is not too many women are the type to honor commitments on a first come first serve basis.
If that wasn’t bad enough the further out you go to setup a time to go out the more likely she is to think less of you, which then increases the likelihood of her not going out with you, even if she accepted first.
For instance, let’s say that a woman gives her phone number to two guys that she equally likes.
The first guy (you) calls her up on Tuesday and sets up a dinner date on Sunday. She accepts and goes on about her week.
Now, Sunday comes and the second guy (future you) calls her up and asks if she wants to hang out while he does his laundry. Not only will she accept but she might not even call to cancel her plans with you or if she does it will be at the last minute, all because future you created more value in himself by doing a whole lot less and right now instead of a whole lot more and later like you decided to do.
What the future you already knows’ is that your best chance of meeting a woman is right now when you are talking to her.
Not only does it show you value yourself by taking advantage of the opportunities you have right in front of you it tells her that you think you are better than anything else she has going on for her which could be anything.
As you read this the only question becomes if you are now the future you or if the future you will be here after you finish reading this right now.
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